I am waiting. I spend my whole life waiting, it seems.
I wait for the alarm to go off (YES, I am so ridiculously messed up that I tend to wake up a good 20-30 minutes before the alarm goes off and can’t manage to get back to sleep before it beeps…).
I wait for the children to PUT ON THEIR SHOES (this gets worse with age, by the way…when they are too big to wrestle anymore).
I wait for the bus to come for them (well, our fabulous neighbor Miss Natalie does that, but I sit and listen for it to roll by the house…), as I’m waiting for the bus, I wait for the coffee. This – the waiting on the coffee – is one of the most tedious periods of waiting throughout the day. I wait for the morning news, for the shower to get hot, for my hair to dry…the garage door to open.
Then, at work I wait for my emails to update/download at work, I wait for a witness or a probation officer or the Assistant District Attorney to call me back, I wait for LUNCHTIME, clients, discovery, officers, the judge… At the jail, I wait for the “ropers” (jail officers who gather inmates) to bring up my clients to the plexi-glassed-in conference rooms, I wait for them to tell me they want a “real lawyer” instead of me (apparently my law degree, license to practice and 10 years of experience are all inadequate since I am a public defender).
I wait for 5 pm, then hurry out the door to wait for a red light, the gas to pump, a slow moving chicken truck, my children to report from the playground at school when I arrive to carry them home…
I wait for the pasta to boil, the wine to breathe, the blessing to be said by one of the children (usually Carson) at dinner… I wait for the children to wash their hair in the bath, to brush their teeth, for a book to be read to me by a first grader at bedtime (I like this waiting the most…), and then, I wait for my body to relax enough to sleep. I wait for the sleep to come.
Right now, I am waiting. Waiting for a phone call. From Birmingham. There is a lymphoma specialist oncologist at UAB. I was supposed to have this thing called a mediastinoscopy – so, now I have to go to UAB on Wednesday and have a CT scan (to complement the PET scan I had a couple weeks ago…), and then I will see the cardio-thoracic surgeon there. I am waiting for them to call me back and tell me when and what and how long. Keep in mind I spent Tuesday, Thursday and Friday waiting for a call to tell me what is next. Friday at 6pm, I got a call (while selling girl scout cookies at the West Rome Walmart), Dr. Forero says what is next is to have a CT Scan and talk to HIS special chest surgeon in Birmingham. And to do all that hopefully on Wednesday, when Dr. Menick (the surgeon) is in. So – now, I am waiting on the phone call to tell me when on Wednesday.
Then – then I will wait for Wednesday.
And with all this waiting, I am glad we have things like coffee. And knitting. And sweet husbands and children and friends to wait with us.